This website discusses adult situations and issues. Although there is nothing obscene here, it may not be appropriate for children or conservative Christians. If you believe that this material may upset or offend you, we invite you to bugger off now. Darika Watchalottaporn lives and works in Southeast Asia, where she is a social worker and community leader. Many of the letters Darika answers on this website were originally published in Asian magazines for homosexual men, so most of the questions and answers are gay themed. Many people, gay or straight, can learn something from Darika.